“Our partners are best able to pleasure us when we can tell them how to pleasure us,” Duran says. Case in point: the movies “Call Me By Your Name,” “Moonlight,” and “Below Her Mouth.”īut IRL nobody can magically deduce what brings you pleasure. “The idea that someone is going to come along and introduce you to out-of-this-world sensations makes good fantasy,” says Andy Duran, queer sex specialist and education director for Good Vibrations. If you haven’t already, get to know your body
